Thursday, January 9, 2014

8 Things 20-somethings Aren't Too Old to Do

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  1. Learn something completely new. In college, that's a given. You're there to learn (hopefully) but that doesn't always mean that you're learning things that you might want. Say for example that you are an Graphic Design major, but you're looking forward to traveling Europe when you're out of college. Learn a language, learn about the cultures you want to visit, learn about the history of the places you are going. In college, it's a little easier because you can pick up an elective in an area you are interested in. But when you are out of college, the solution is literally to pick up a book. This way you are learning at a pace that works for your lifestyle and you are still growing. 
  2. Have a party. I know, duh. But I know some of you are in your late twenties and are shaking your head no. I am here to tell you that it is NEVER too late to have a party. That doesn't mean I'm encouraging parties like in the Hangover or in Project X. The style of party might vary from person to person, age to age, but the principle is the same. You're never too old to have a party with your favorite people and their friends and their friends friends. It keeps things fresh and introduces you to new people, ideas, and keeps things interesting. 
  3. Have sleepovers, blow bubbles, hula hoop, dance, skinny dip, or play a board game. The point is, you are not too old to play. I remember I had an amazing impression of a girl once. The first time I met her, I was 19 and she was 21. She was on her boyfriends bed, hula hooping while eating a sandwich and listening to j-pop. I mean, talk about a great first impression! Not to mention, some of the best parties I've been to, I've whipped out a board game and had a ton of fun. 
  4. Change your mind about something. This is the time that you have a pretty darn good idea who and what you are as a person. But it's not too late to change your mind and make changes (hopefully for the better!). This could mean political issues, things you are passionate about, things you like, heck, even your favorite color. Try to keep an open mind, and keep expanding your horizons.
  5. Adopt a new style. Now which style you adopt might be up for debate, but it's never too late to change your wardrobe. Add new colors, adopt the latest trend, or change your hair. Especially when you are just beginning your life. Maybe you are still in college with a job at Starbucks. Dye your hair that crazy color, try out those short skirts, wear lots of make up (or none at all!) and just have fun with your style. This is the time of your life that you're nearly expected to have a crazy style, so just go for it. You don't want to be in your 50's and regret never having tried a style that you just can't pull off anymore, right? You're in your prime. Go for it. 
  6. Pick up your stuff, and go on an adventure. I recently read a quote that say when you're young, you have the energy and time to go on an adventure, but no money. When you're in the middle of your life, you have the money and energy, but no time. When you're older, you have all the money and time, but no energy. So make the money and go on your adventure; it's something you'll carry with you always. 
  7. Stay up late. This one is tricky. Because as your responsibilities grow, you need to be attuned to them and stay alert and rested to carry them out. But here's the thing: right now, your body can handle it. You think you're miserable now having a night out in the city and then being a little sleepy for work? Try doing that when you're 40. You'll be passing out, throwing up, and begging your co-workers to kill you. 
  8. To ask questions. This one is very important. Your parents tried their best, but there might be some gaps in your knowledge. No, in fact, there is the definite chance that there is some blaring knowledge gap that you avoid talking about because you don't want to sound stupid. My advice, ask your closest friend or your significant other about it. If they're good friends, they won't judge you for asking. Too embarrassed? Ask the internet. Examples, "What the hell is 'chic'?" or "What's the difference Champagne and Sparkling wine?"



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